That’s BS. The husband KNEW he didn’t have a vasectomy. He KNEW she hadn’t yet been able to get an IUD.

He STILL had sex with her. That is his choice.

If he felt THAT strongly about it, he should’ve refused to have sex until she’d gotten the IUD. Hell, he should’ve made it clear he was done and that he wanted to do the vasectomy.

He should’ve tried to communicate. Now he just wants to dictate.

Nope. So much nope.

Even IF she got pregnant on purpose (like stopped her birth control without telling him), he STILL knew there was a risk. He STILL opted to take that risk. Yes, it would make her a shitty, manipulative person… in which case, perhaps they’d actually be a match made in heaven.